Insights Blog

By Martina Hughes & Rod Gordon

The Vulnerability of Being Seen women's work written by martina hughes Jun 23, 2021

It’s common for me to oscillate between wanting to be seen and wanting to hide.

A desire to be noticed in all my beauty, love, sensuality and pleasure.

The incredible vulnerability of being fully seen can also activate...

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Does Expressing Your Feelings Lead To Disagreement? women's work written by martina hughes Jun 22, 2021

How many times have you walked away from a discussion that turned into an argument with your partner thinking “but I was only expressing my feelings…”?

I experienced this many times in the past…...

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Why Criticism Never Works In Relationships women's work written by martina hughes Jun 16, 2021

How many of us women enter a relationship with a man and then try to change him to be who we want him to be?

Arghhh.. I feel myself cringing as I write that. And yes, my hand is raised, I have done that!

Why do we do that?

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5 Reasons Why Self-Love Can Be Elusive women's work written by martina hughes Mar 11, 2020

Love is often something that we seek.

However, did you know that there are more potent ways to feel and experience love?

Love has many forms and expressions.

Yet, true intimacy with others begins with self-love.

There...

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