Meet Your Intimacy Coaches
Our Vision
We are dedicated to supporting women and men to cultivate a new kind of intimacy.
An intimacy that allows you to heal, grow and transform.
An intimacy that will bring gifts that you have only ever dreamed of. An intimacy that is profoundly life changing.
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Our Values
The Intimacy Oasis team are living in alignment with...
> Growth
> Contribution
> Joie de Vivre
> Responsibility
> Intimacy
About Martina
"It is possible..."
I know that relationships can be deeply fulfilling and meaningful or they can be excruciatingly painful.
The truth is, most relationships are somewhere in between and include components of both.
Many people believe that relationships should just happen naturally. Whilst we are hardwired for relationships, most of us have conditioning and patterns that get in the way of living the quality of intimacy that we truly desire.
My passion is to support women and men to discover who they truly are, to learn relationship tools that will make a difference in their lives, and to cultivate the quality of intimacy and relationship they most deeply long for.
From my own experiences, I have felt and seen the impact of not knowing how to communicate in a relationship, not knowing how to be my full self, not understanding how to create the kind of intimacy that I craved.
So many people today struggle with not feeling seen, heard and felt by their intimate partners. Many people are challenged by not knowing how to connect with the quality of partner they wish for.
I have learnt over the last 16 years of both personal and professional experiences that it is possible to create change. It is possible to learn embodiment practices, communication skills and relationship tools that will transform your life.
My life is dedicated to supporting women and men to cultivate a new kind of intimacy. An intimacy that allows you to grow and transform together, an intimacy that will bring gifts that you have only ever dreamed of, an intimacy that is profoundly life changing.
With love,
Martina
Martina's Professional Journey
Martina intuitively understands people and their relationship dynamics. She loves cultivating connections and being of service.
Martina has lived and worked overseas and her influence spans many continents.
Her professional manner and unwavering presence gives people permission to be vulnerable, and a safe space to share their most personal life challenges.
Martina empowers women and men to discover the full range of their humanity and realise their deepest gifts.
Martina’s own journey of transformation has included her transition from a career as a Financial Controller to now sharing her wisdom as a Love, Intimacy and Relationships Mentor.
This transition included several years of exploration and training through yoga, meditation, various therapies, food as medicine, shiatsu, energetic healing, breathwork, rebirthing, and tantra.
Martina has integrated her learnings and brings them together in a truly holistic and comprehensive offering.
Martina’s purpose is to support people opening their hearts to the greater source of love that lives inside every one of us.
Rod's Professional Journey
Rod holds space with creativity, intuition and presence. Skilfully empowering men and women to live a version of their life they knew existed but felt impossible to achieve.
Rod is an expert in the art of Sacred Intimacy, masculine embodiment, and meditation.
Rod has the unique experience of 30 years as a hairdresser. Through hairdressing, Rod has fine-tuned his ability to connect and listen to people. He knows with great detail the common challenges that women and men face in relationships.
Rod’s capacity for seeing people with love and compassion allows him to meet his clients on a deep level, to see and feel what is happening for them, and to lovingly guide them to discover the possibilities available for them.
The most important aspects of Rod’s life are his relationship to Martina, his son Max, being of service, and deepening his own journey.
Rod continues to study and explore both here in Australia and overseas with world-class leaders to further his own growth and deepen his skills, wisdom and offering to his clients.
Our Journey
Our relationship has a foundation of shared values, mutual commitment to growth and desire to be of service.
We have noticed that as we grow and evolve as individuals and as a couple, our work deepens, and our offering to the community becomes stronger and more powerful.
Redefining Intimacy is what we both love to do - for ourselves personally and for our community.
Intimacy can mean many different things, by making a stand for Redefining Intimacy, we are acknowledging the need for real intimacy to exist in people's lives. Intimacy with oneself, with your chosen partner, with friends, with family.
The willingness to be seen, heard and felt, the capacity to see, hear and feel others. This is where intimacy begins.
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Teaching People To Love
We are teaching people to love. Really and truly love. Not the romantic version, not the fluffy version. But to really love.
Cultivating a Life of Trust
My body was buzzing with aliveness and possibility. We had committed to trusting a process bigger than ourselves. We weren’t making a choice of where to move to, we were trusting life to bring us the information we needed at the time we needed it.
Why Are We Redefining Intimacy?
True intimacy with your chosen partner can create tremendous healing, bring new dreams to life, offer significant opportunities for transformation, and lead to spiritual awakening.
Our Adventures
Rod and I go on 'adventure days' once a week. These days can include going to new places, walking in the bush or on the beach, 4WDing, motorbike rides, catching fish in the ocean, or discovering new cafes. We both enjoy being spontaneous and having new experiences together.
Our Wedding
On Saturday afternoon at Little Bay, NSW, we celebrated our love with indigenous ceremony and sharing of personal vows.
The land and the ocean held us with our celebrant's loving guidance, and we were witnessed by friends, family, and wildlife.
So many things did not go to plan on the way to our wedding. However, we took it as another opportunity to trust, trust, and trust some more.
We have been honeymooning for almost 2 weeks.. fishing, swimming, working on the garden, having quiet time at home together.. it's been really beautiful.
Looking at the photos reminds me how love filled, intentional and connected each and every moment of the day was.
There is a sense of something in me having been deeply and profoundly transformed through the ceremony and rituals of our wedding day.. even though I can't put into words what it is.
There's simply a feeling of more love, more trust, more depth, more magic, more presence, more commitment and more, more, more...
Our Home
We both love living near nature, and one of the reasons we chose our home is because we have a beautiful reserve full of magnificent trees behind us. Since we moved in here in December 2020, we have been expanding our gardens - adding new soil, nutrients, new trees and flowers, and creating a veggie garden. It's so fulfilling to watch vegetables grow and to walk outside to pick vegetables for our meals.
We love creating spaces that feel intentional, nourishing and beautiful. Rod is a big fan of a project - so we have been doing house and garden projects to beautify our home as well as giving us the working and meditation spaces that support us in our inner and outer journeys.
With these projects Rod leads the way and does a lot of the heavy work, and I am the happy labourer following his instructions.
We consider our home to be a cocoon - a space that is functional, inspiring and supportive of transformation.
One of our favourite parts about living here is that we have visits from kangaroos, kookaburras, rosellas, turtles, and frogs.
It is important for us to live near the beach for ease of beach walks and ocean fishing! Nature is a constant teacher to us, showing us more of our own nature, and the nature of humanity.
Our Community's Experiences...
Read about how our work has impacted our client's lives.
"Greg and I are now more connected on a deeper level and we feel more alive, it is so beautiful..."
"The depth I dropped into was amazing. At times I felt raw, tender, frustrated, light, dark and so much more..."
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Follow along with Martina & Rod's unfolding journey and receive valuable insights and inspirations along side a like-minded, global community.